Bible Recommendation
The Bible we use during our devotions has changed over the years. I once used my ESV Reformation Study Bible by Ligonier Ministries and often times my Cambridge Wide-Margin Bible, but I have found a children’s bible that caters to the imagination of the children while not compromising fidelity to the text of scripture. There are embellishments but not in the sense the story line or key doctrines become distorted or neglected. Banner of Truth supplies this Bible called, The Child’s Story Bible by Catherine Vos. I encourage you to get this Bible if you still have younger children as I do. I encourage this because of the clarity and story. It is a twenty thousand foot level read, but allows the child to see the whole Bible and the message of Jesus Christ. If you cannot get The Child’s Story Bible, any Bible will do.
Overview
Keep the Bible study/devotion time simple. If it is not simple, you will not remain consistent. I have fallen into this trap before by wanting it to be grandiose while forgetting I have little ones who have an attention span of about ten minutes. I now try to keep it to around ten to fifteen minuets depending on the material, but they do extend if the kids are asking questions. Keep the moving parts minimal. We usually do a prayer, Bible reading, short explanation, Bible verse, catechism, song, and lastly ending prayer. That may seem like a lot, but really it is simple and effective.
If you keep it simple, the kids will look forward to it, remind you of it, and be proud to tell you of what you talked about on the last devotion. It is a good cycle of compounding returns. Also, keep in mind the goal is to not have a goal exactly. You should rather have a consistent simple outline like that above that will be a mainstay in your family’s rhythm of life. The action should be as familiar as brushing teeth or having lunch each day. Of course the goal is to see your kids come to Christ and follow him in discipleship, but this system will ensure they remain acquainted with the things of God while trusting God will take care of the afore mentioned goals.
Devotional Breakdown
We begin our devotions with a simple prayer of asking God to help us understand what we are about to learn. This orients the beginning of the devotion godward. We need the help of the Holy Spirit to illuminate the scriptures to us. We also pray for forgiveness and end the prayer in thankfulness in order to encourage our children to include these in their daily action of prayer. So the big three to begin is to ask for help, forgiveness, and to be thankful to God for all he has done.
Next, we move to Bible reading. I usually take a chapter from The Children’s Story Bible and preface it with what we learned from the last time. Currently we are going through the book cover to cover. We are in chapter nineteen which is divided into two parts. I will read just one part of that chapter and that will be all I read for that time. Each chapter is short and simple. I have had my oldest son read the chapters when we used the regular Bible. I have yet, to get him to read these chapters. But a good practice would be to allow the kids to be involved where they can so to take active part in the family devotion time.
After reading the chapter, I will explain briefly what we read. I make this as simple as repeating a few key points noticed while reading. As a side note, I do not prepare for the devotion before hand. I speak extemporaneously each and every time, but I will say this is an overflow from my own Bible reading which I encourage all Christians to engage.
Once we have explained the text in a short two or three main points, I then move to a simple Bible verse memorization. We used John 3:16 many times before. For this very famous verse, I have created a fun song my kids can learn, sing and repeat back. I venture to say my children could find themselves reciting this song when older just as they would have to recite the alphabet song to remember if the letter “O” comes before or after the letter “L”. Its catchy and sticks. I don’t always do songs with the verses, but I try. We will repeat this a couple times, I may ask one kid to recite it to me by themselves and then that portion is finished.
The memory verse is followed by what I would think could be the most daunting for parents. We move to a time of catechism. Catechism is simply a question and answer method of teaching. I now use Spurgeon’s Catechism: Revised and Updated by Roger McReynolds. I will take one question in the book at a time. First I will ask it, see what the kids say, and then answer it with the answer from the book. I will also draw their attention to the Bible verses from which the answer is derived. In this volume from Spurgeon, each question is given its own page which makes for an easy way of going though the book. This section of the devotional time seems to spark the most questions. The time of explaining the Bible reading does some, but this time seems more free for the kids to express their lingering questions. Try to make room for the questions and do not be afraid to tell your kids you do not know the answer to something. You’ll find the catechism will benefit the whole family.
After the question and answer time, we sing a song. We usually sing the Doxology. We have sang other songs, but this one is short and sweet. The kids love it.
Lastly, just as we opened in prayer, we close in prayer. We thank God for his word and message. We ask him to help us apply what we learned and to remind us of it through the day. At this time we also may take prayer requests and pray for specific needs the family are facing together. I often will ask one of the kids to close us in prayer.
Conclusion
That’s it! It is not that hard, and it will give huge spiritual dividends as time goes on. Sure it could be difficult when you have little ones, but just like anything that is worth doing it comes with difficulty. I have a feeling your children will be grateful not only that you took the time to tell them about the things of God, but also that you took the time with them. I have found the most precious of gifts to give your children is time spent with them and this allows you to do just that. It is a wonderful thing to see them grow in the understanding of the Lord. We as parents have an obligation to raise our Children in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). We do this so when they are old they will not depart from the things of God (Proverbs 22:6). Keep the faith and teach them as you wake up, walk along the way, and when you lay down (Deuteronomy 6:7); for in this they will learn the fear of the Lord which is wisdom and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding (Proverbs 9:10).